Wedding Checklist

Found this wedding checklist dekat blog sape ntah :)

Checklist Kahwin
1. Kursus Kahwin -- > ahah went there 5th and 6th jan .. like one year ago
2. Daftar Kahwin kat Pej Agama, submit semua document/borang --> i just did the hiv test.. didnt go to see the jurunikah, pej agama etc etc with wali/saksi .. so i dont really know about the progress, hope that its done by now
3. Kad Jemputan --> done
a. Stem, envelope etc --> done
b. Senarai Jemputan --> done for 10th jan, reception on 3rd jan not ready yet
4. Booking Dewan (kalau buat kat dewan book 4 bulan b4 kenduri dan bayar deposit) --> ok
5. Booking Tempat Nikah (kalau kat masjid) --> nikah @ home
6. Nikah --> 2nd jan
a. Catering (kalau nikah tak sama hari sanding) --> done
b. Kanopi (sewa) --> color not decided yet..
c. Baju Nikah --> blom gi fitting
d. Mak Andam/Tukang mekap... jgn ambik man kajang ek --> done.. biase² je takdela sampai 500++ ke ape
e. Pakai Inai... nak lukis2 pi kat kedai --> done
f. Mas Kahwin --> done.. how much eh? 80 ke?
g. Duit Hantaran --> halfly done
h. Bayar Jurunikah --> on 2nd jan.. how much eh?
i. Barang Kemas batal air sembahyang --> ring? done.. a simple one no diamond² whatsoever so boleh pakai selalu
j. Barang2 Gubah hantaran, sewa dulang hantaran, tema warna, sewa bantal nikah --> satu ape blom beli
k. Ole-Ole untuk tetamu yang datang masa nikah --> no ole² time nikah
l. Hantaran (Perempuan) --> satu ape blom beli
- Kain, Cincin, Sirih Junjung, Telekung/sejadah, Manisan/kek, Coklat, Tuala, Bunga Rampai, Kasut, Handbag, Al-Quran, Buah, Minyak Wangi, Make-up, etc.
m. Hantaran (Lelaki)
- Baju Kemeja/Tie, Wallet, Tali Pinggang, Toilletries, Kasut, Baju Melayu, Jam, Sejadah, Songkok, Tuala, Sirih Junjung, Bunga Rampai, Pulut Kuning, Kek, Coklat, Buah, etc.
7. Sanding --> 3rd, 4th and 10th
a. Catering hari sanding --> done for both sides.. food tasting done for 10th reception, for 2nd and 3rd blom lg.. siap tukar menu lg for my receptions on the 10th tu sbb x kene pulak rasa die
b. Pelamin --> TAK ADE LAGI for my receptions : 3rd and 10th.. pelamin sume nak cekik² darah.. im paying for my own wedding.. except for the 10th reception, need some help from my parents but even that pun bukan 100%.. so seriously kalau pelamin with ridiculous price (at least for me), susah la nak accept
c. Main Table --> caterer + hotel yg buat la kan?
d. Baju Sanding --> blom fitting
e. Cameraman
- Video / gambar --> done
f. Emcee – kalau buat kat dewan --> done
g. Tukang Baca Doa --> x tau
h. Group Marhaban --> takde kot
i. Kompang --> takde kot
j. Transportation (untuk ke rumah perempuan / lelaki) --> kereta je la
k. Muzik
- Sewa audio system --> caterer + hotel uruskan.. songs x pilih lg btw
l. Mak Andam / Tukang Mekap --> bkn dah tanye ke atas td
m. Baju Malam Berinai --> no malam berinai
n. Kek Kahwin 10 tingkat (kalah siti nurhaliza) --> 3 tingkat pun enough
o. Baju Potong Kek --> same je baju sampai end of majlis
p. Bunga Pahar kat pelamin --> halfly done
q. Alat2 Merenjis
- Bunga rampai untuk letak dalam bekas merenjis --> ?? pelamin pun x ade lg
r. Bantal kecik kat pelamin dan kipas untuk pengapit pegang --> ??
s. Bunga Manggar --> kene ke?
t. Bunga Telur / berkat untuk tetamu
- Jangan lupa beli telur dan rebus --> halfly done
u. Ole-Ole untuk Tetamu Main Table --> same je main table or tak

Tick tock Tick tock Tick tock

Harini 2 Dec...pagi² lagi (or plutôt tgh² malam) zeff dah message "......sebulan je lg......"

uishhh cepat gilee rasenye.. and i just realized that my last reception, 10 jan 09 is exactly 5 months after our engagement day.. haha baru perasan..

tadi baru balik jumpe our videographer sume nak submit photo.. boleh die kate ohh normally gamba org send dalam 50++ .. haha ok la tuh kitorang nak kasi around 180++ mane nak buang lagi 130++ tu pun dah puas tapis² pics kitorang ... anywayS finally lepas tolak² mane² pic, ade la tinggal 66 je.. seriously cannot go down to 50 .. nih dah habis pilih dah ni haha..

dah send sume gamba baru laa teringat ade gamba makhluk ni lupeee nak letak.. gamba Nemo !!

sian Nemo camanela tuan die ni boleh lupe :(

so esok gi johor .. zeff pun gi johor so kalau ade mase maybe we'll have dinner together.. sbb im not sure whether his hotel jauh ke tak from mine .. and this saturday gi paris .. hmm excited tuh ye la but at the same time sgt laa wrong timing nye.. i had tonnes of things to do at home haiyaa

Photo Video Montage

im off to johor to accompany the EU diplomats from Singapore on Dec 3rd and 4th .. luckily our Economic Counsellor can finally join me to the trip.. boleh aje gi sorang but its just that i have never met all the reps from french embassy kat spore tu.. other diplomats from other EU countries jgn harapla i nak kenal.. ANYWAYS(zeff punye style cakap), ill go to paris for a training next saturday.. and seriously there are still tonnes of things to be settled, like Pelamin!! x jumpe² lg.. of course ade byk wedding planner but have to find one yg suit my budget la kan.. And now im very bz with this photo video montage for my reception .. Seriously its not an easy job as we have like thousands!! of photos together.. we will insert two songs sepanjang the montage.. but we still can't decide for the first song.. we want something catchy, fast track song, something like Accidentally in Love.. tp lagu tu dah baanayyakk sgt org pakai for photo montage.. at least as far as i know la.. ape eh lagu korang fikir yg best?? Luckily I finally decided not to do the montage on my own.. mmg takde mase..

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ok.. a few weeks after the proposal, zeff's family came to my house for a merisik ceremony takyah tanye pun aku setuju ahah.. it was really meant to be a merisik ceremony ONLY although err ade khemah sebiji, caterer for the day, IMAM for my district, and oh yes baju i yg terlebih over for a merisik..ok per ahah.. so actually u guys can refer to these blogs as well http://wenkt.com/blog/?p=1971 and http://jomcakap.blogspot.com/2008/08/merisik-ke-bertunang.html .. but okla here's my side of the story ...

zeff''s family was supposed to come around 10.30am and then 10.10 mcm tuh, my mom suddenly entered my room and said "Imam kate, alang² tunang terus lah" haha i didnt object ke ape yelahh bukan tibe² suruh kawen dgn Nepal worker sebelah umah aku ke ape ... so I quicky called zeff who was of course on the way to my house already.. my mom kate ala takpe ni "tunang cakap" as of course we only prepared 3 hantarans from both sides. But, overall everything went smoothly or too smoothly I must say as they discussed all (the tentative date, the hantaran, etc) in less than 15 minutes! Luckily Farina darling managed to finish my make up on time, and I still could put on lotion on my left finger before I "slowly" walked down the stairs. Oh yes, those who know me taulah I walk quite or very fast..

And another thing, my mom took my proposal ring to be presented as merisik ring, and my supposed to be merisik ring was upgraded to an engagement ring.. luckily we didnt buy a typical cincin belah rotan for merisik.. we bought a ring with Amethyst stone on it (or is it emerald?). Anddd to complete the kelam-kabutness of the day, both rings fit properly my LEFT finger only..though the engagement ring can fit my right finger with a little bit of difficulty...but I did mention that I only put on lotion on my left finger.. so when zeff's mom wanted to slip in both engagement and merisik ring, I cepat² tunjuk my left jari manis haha.. and I still got time to explain "oh aunty actually both rings are only meant for my left finger..blablabla"...

ok then as usual, we had a lunch at my house, food was great, caterer of the day was from my father's company's very own canteen.. although i didnt really fancy the tent, but its just a minor detail...

so now I have these two accessories that I treasure the most.. though I seldom put on those rings but Im very happy that after more than 7 years, we have taken our relationship to another level ... :) merci à ma famille, celle de zeff and my dayangs of the day, Fg and Ya ...